
I am not going to write much about whose culture it is but sharing thoughts can help to guess whose can be. Motive is not to show someones negativity but to express the inner feelings that dump like a garbage when expressed is fired like a job.
Think before you speak, react. Very easy to say but is this really practical. Do really have the freedom of saying anything, sharing anything, laughing, eating, sleeping, etc?? Of course most of answer will be “No”. Yes, i guess no and want to show through a story.
When a girl born everyone greet with goddess has arrived 🤣. All the facilities, happiness was given from her maternal side and she started climbing the stairs of success that she wanted and deserve. And suddenly a new path of life arrived with a celebration of someone special and new family. She was not ready but choosen the path as she trusts her family a lot. And the life after the new journey totally changed.
Some where happiness, some ways trouble and making a practice of soothing the path. She achieved victory at some places with too many struggles. But what make her strong is the hurdles only. Yes, its true. Every time we want to get rid of our problem but thats the real power of a lady.
She wakes up, talk, eat, speak and even think according to other close ones. Finally she started achieving of what she dreamt of. But few questions still remain the same. Who is more powerful the men or women? In a marriage a man is always elder than a woman then why expect from the lady only to cook food for 10 or more members of family? Complete all the household chores? And when comes for taking a decision it is said ” oh dear you are not so experienced, you are too young now”. When comes to doing all chores it is woman duty nevertheless how much work is given to her and when comes to taking decision or doing other things beside home chores man’s are the best one.
This ritual is followed from ancient times and is going to continue further more to add more years.
Very sad for women 😔 but still feel a sweet smell of hope there will be a hope to get a better solution.
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