10yrs past, and still, everything is going on. Now understood that all types of commonalty are important in life. Every person thinks of their own way and I will give a plus point to them. Its very natural to have different opinions of two different people but it doesn’t mean that one is right and other is wrong. Because the same new can give mental relief to anyone when in pain. We should always try to respect each others opinions instead of judging.  Its just like happiness and frigid both are important in life similarly people in surrounding with different opinions are also important.

This may happens that a person giving so much of gratification can make you to cry and a person who irritates you can give relief with their words. Its very natural to get upset and should not feel guilty why I am sad and other happy. If happiness is important same is the frigid. Life is a mixture of in and out thoughts, sometimes you feel top of the world and sometimes touching the ground. But remember touching the ground is the new beginning of the next level. Once we keep on walking the next level again the same cycle of happiness and frigid rotates. So always make yourself ready for the in and out of the life which completes the each life phases.

There is no shortcut in life. I can share that I never being so strong if haven’t faced in and out of each life phase. Infact I am very thankful to the people in my life who ignored me, embarrassed me and found me of no to less useful because their this type of thinking made me to build floors of my life.

So stay hydrated with the whatsoever thinking of your mind by reconstructing if not suitable for you and keep walking on every new path of life.

When happiness is there in our life,

Everyone makes a present mark.

When happiness is in their life,

Everyone makes an absent mark.

Very rebellion thought but very useful to make a person strong to fight back….

This article is dedicated to my mother who is a world for me.

“Her everyday calls on my mobile reflects the care and love for me.”

“Maa” very easy word to say but its meaning is speechless. I cant explain the importance of this word but everyday in my life I feel its significance. There are different ways to call like ‘maa’, ‘mummy’, ‘mumma’ & so on but mass of each word is same. Everyday I learn a new lesson from the environment around me and so from the world also, with all positive thoughts/energy.

Today I am feeling like to describe what, how a mother put so much of efforts for her child to come up, bloom up in the world. A mother is who fight with her dreams and sacrifice for her little bloomers. A mother is who always support her child despite of knowing who is elder one and who is youngest. A mother is who motivate her kid what so ever is her condition. A mother is who always keep on fighting with the daily negative thoughts.

A mother is who always water the dreams of her love ones. A mother is who realize the mistakes a child do but in secret without disturbing the child emotions. This is a very important point so discussing in more detail. Its very difficult or I can use the word “impossible” for all to keep the secrets of ours love ones securely rather than giving a soft punch in public. Its important to announce when your child is doing good, something creative to feel the child how special is he/she for the mother. We express the love publicly then why not their achievements? whether its a big or small. A mother is who make the announcement of her growing one on a good positive platform. A mother is who never give up and always fight with the hurdles comes in path. A mother who puts all her efforts to make her child a “happy Einstein” irrespective of any field the child chooses.

A mother is who teaches the child to be creative, supportive, courageous in this black hole competitive environment.

Her unconditional love and fruitful life is totally dedicated for her bloomers.

Changes are one of the key features to live a life happily. What I saw, most people change themselves to adjust in the society. I saw myself always saying ” I am changed now, to what I was earlier”. But the change was good for me? I am sure everyone asks this question to themselve after becoming a changed person. And my answer for me is “yes” , the change was good decision for me and its also true that it took time to accept the truth of saying “yes”.

Changes are two types just like the two phases of a coin. One change, that a person choose by itself to live a happy me. Second change, situations/circumstances make the person to change. But what I discovered that there is a change after summing the above two changes. Yes!! A change that doesn’t make the person feel happy at present but later shows the result in positive.

Let me explain this by relating with the women’s life. Before marriage: life of a bird flying unconditionally in the sky ; and after marriage: the bird was trapped in a cage – this is what mostly I heard. Somehow I also felt the same because suddenly life changes with so many instructions, obstacles. But above all these, suddenly after a long time realised that those changes are good for me.

Those made me a strong, independent person – physically and mentally both. Struggling alone with bad situations, getting the right by experiences – all made me a strong person. Though I was changed myself with no interest but now all those burdens, obstacles made me strong bone women. Learnt lots and learning now also. But one thing that I found is changing the “original me” which was not making a strong me.

The originality, purity of our feelings, should not be changed. If you are fun loving, kind person, do continue with the same. Don’t change yourself. If you are a caring, sharing person! do continue but with the knowledge of experienced you had till now. Finally its we who make ourselves happy, calm by accepting the changes positively. Don’t afraid of the burdens, just face them.

I know giving all these gyan is very easy but the phase through which a person passes with a sudden changes in life is not easy to accept. The results of making lots of mistakes is the best part, the learning from the mistakes makes an experienced person and only that person can live the changes made in a positive manner to make a “strong me”.

Be a change, accept the changes

but in one condition

Not to change the “original me”.

#Rules, #Interest, #Thinking, #Discipline

Do we really! really! follow the rules? No, no…..I am not talking about the traffic rules, walking rules, school rules, office rules and regulations. I am talking about life rules. Yes, rules to live a happy, satisfying life that I call as “Discipline“.

From earlier days, people made the word “DISCIPLINE” so tough, difficult to follow that today also we get afraid of the word.

But a DISCIPLINE in life should be a thought that makes a meaningful, satisfying life to live.

That’s why I make my equation of Life interest on terms of rules as,

RULES + THOUGHTS = INTEREST

Let me state one story, of course with more questions to ask but should find a solution by ourself to follow our interest. A girl was happy with her family, friends, school. Then enters to the next phase i.e. college but with lots of hope, dreams to stand on her foot, to become independent, to make her parents smile, feel proud on her successful works. But suddenly again life changed as usual a new phase of life. Got married with a big dream of getting and giving that she always dreamed of. Everything was awesome only for 7days then got a shock, one dream slashed down. After 2 months again a shock, second dream screamed inside but as not shared so broke. After 4 months she understood, what we dream, the things on which have interest, our rules- all these don’t get accepted by the life. We have to sacrifice something, change our rules according to situations,then only make the equation meaningful,

RULES + THOUGHTS = INTEREST

Yes, we have to change the path of interest not the INTEREST itself. Lots of people she met and found that all wants her to change her dream, change her thoughts. But is it healthy? My point absolutely not. Even a bird can use her wings only to fly happily in sky than why not a women? Why she always have to use the wings (thoughts, suggestions, forceful advices) of others to fly(live) according to them.

Already situations change a women a lot. She itself change her rules to make a happier family then why so much of unnecessary advices needed for her, ah!….Is it that people think to keep a command on them? Because of this thinking she starts loosing her inner power of healthy thoughts.

Note : Remember that a healthy family member(a women) thoughts can make a healthy life, but a forceful ejection of others thoughts cannot become an energy booster for her and her family.

Let all women think, observe and apply their theory to discover a healthy new life. Message for all women,

MAKE RULES,. THINK POSITIVE+ TO FULFILL THEIR DREAMS(INTEREST).

Not blaming someone but blaming the negative thoughts about women.

No doubt suggestions are always welcomed but when not needed please keep them away.

Heading clearly state that “a child is welcomed always alone in the world” but want to reflect some more fruitful thoughts of this statement. Though we are welcomed alone in the world but still can’t survive alone for a long time. We need someone. And that someone is having a special role in our life. I wrote that a child is welcomed alone in the world but this is not my perspective, this is the perception of few people’s in world that I observed. According to me, a child is always welcomed with a special person of life, who is the “Mother”. Yes, mother who can’t leave her child to be alone from the beginning only, who not stop thinking of her kids first, who is not tired of doing best for her besty.

In my place its completely raining for a long time but still when I wake up early morning my eyes always see the beam of light coming from houses, my ears hear the holy sound of bell, can see the mother holding the hand of child and waiting for school bus, and much more. A mother cannot leave any member of her family alone to survive hard.

Always protective, enjoyable and bubbling with positive thoughts.

I have always heard that “we are alone, we work alone, we handle situation alone”, but I being a mother ask myself “does my mother said any words like this when I was a child?”. Does she expressed how difficult times she used to face everyday?

If you guys ask the same question I am sure you will get the answer ‘No’. Then why todays environment become so clumsy, narrow, losing the good thoughts. Because of the thought “I am alone”. No, nobody is alone. Everyone is having their strength, someone special who cares, make you feel safe, happy, secure, cosy and taught to survive in the big world. Mother only kick the child to enter into the world of chaos but it’s we who can build ourself looking at our someone special, looking at her efforts, looking at her works, positive thoughts.

We cannot think of standing

Without the help of someone special,

Just like cannot think of walking

Without the base of nature.

Let’s put positive thoughts in us

Getting from someone special,

Let’s build a powerful world

Without thinking I am alone.

#sharing, #jealousy, #happiness, #detachment.

You all must have heard of the topic that I am going to share but even noone can ignore this problem as now-a-days its the main reason of detachment of human beings.

Lets start this with an example. Family went for a trip, all enjoyed, #good quality time, #delicious food and had more relaxed days compare to last one year. Now what a normal person will do? If want to share that happiness with ours , either will call the nearest ones or share the pic with all. But I want to ask you what is important? Sharing the pictures with others or waiting for the comments from each person! Ha ha, quite funny question and you can think as stupid but its an obvious question that run like a fast going train each day. Shared the pics on Facebook, whatspp, and Instagram etc. And got so many beautiful comments but still the person waiting for more comments from those who have not answered. Oh!, My god. How disparate these apps made the humans mind!

So,I just want to clear out a simple logic of life is outside source only give happiness but not satisfaction. Satisfaction can be gained only by doing things for ourselves without any fear of society. Hearing own 💓, mind only. Today in the big world of depression, stress everyone stops to a point of finding this satisfaction for a real happy, peaceful mind.

Want to ask more- Is fame more important to show the hard work? Why dont people encourage by asking the positive things of a person? Is it important to show off each and every point of what happening in daily life?

Just because of this fame every one is joining the race of competition. From my point, if doing great in life then celebrate that with the person you are instead sharing pics only with the world and waiting for the comments. Want to express more but for now lets pause here, so that will be back with more thoughts of life.

#Emotions, #Actions,#Innocent

How to relate the words Emotions, Actions and last but not the least Innocent is not so difficult. Yes, its true from my view. I can connect all the words as a meaning to make a new word “Baby”. Whether a newborn, a toddler,….they all describe the world. World is also a mixture of Innocency, Emotions, Actions and likewise is a baby who makes a parent to live leaving behind all the worries.

Born of a new life is just like a morning rays spreading around with the fresh breeze and making the world lightful.

Small face with a million dollar smile look like a flower blooming, surprisingly looking at the people shows how holy mind and 💓 the child is having.

This innocency connects the world to another world, i.e., the people around to the baby.

Now coming to next phase i.e. the toddler. Looking the activities, happiness, efforts they put, get the power to grow. Through their sweet words, glowy smile and sharp mind win the heart of others. They dont expect like adults the number of likes, comments for their actions instead they enjoy when others smile with them. This is one of the lesson of life that they teach but now-a-days people are so busy with the bubbling life that they even not recognise their love ones smile and acceptance. Just to get tons of likes, comments they share news. Does anyone think of sharing loved ones happiness with ours? No, because they dont get time from sharing their own news. Oh, its a vast topic and shouldn’t mix with the power of grow. So the above phase makes the word “Action”.

And now the final word but with this only big and small all gets connected on their smooth and tough phases of life i.e., the “Emotions”. I will describe this as an emergency tool of babies. Yup, its an emergency tool, how? Let me explain. When to get a hug, to get a toy, or to get rid of something, the easiest way to express their emotions is in the form of “cry”. Yes, heard right – “Cry”. Its a common myth people having that who cries is the weakest person but in the same world some dare to say “I cry because I am a strong person”. As the two parts of coin having different meaning so is the meaning of cry. There are two means of cry, one can take in a positive way and another in negative. But what comes in the result at last is whether they are weak or strong they cry once in life. So, I believe its an emergency tool that makes a person strong by sweating out all the negativity.

So, lets observe the three shinning words and make something creative.

Hey guys,

Back with the power of imagination. Last few months was very pathetic for me and my family specially for my daughter. With this statement you can guess on what topic I am going to share and discuss with you. As a lock and a key are made for each other, the same is a women and her family. ha….ha… quite different and interesting example given,am I Right! but its very true.

A family cant survive without the lady-in-charge of house and same for the lady also. In India, today also the women cares for her family first and put herself on second. Its a lovely feeling that she get by helping others, encouraging others. It seems these are her energy boosters. But ignoring herself is not good enough for her and her family also. This has to understand the women and her family that taking care of herself is also very important for better development of her and her family.

Last few months I was suffering from physical as well as mental trauma and being a women, being a mother I understand how difficult it is to hold and run the family with a positive energy. In such a competitive environment its very important to make our self strong first, then only we can boost our family members. But this wont become possible if we don’t get support. Even a standing tree needs a support of a root, land then why not to expect from the living people.

A happy, strong women makes a happy family, energy boosters of the nation that are her children, and make a pleasant environment to bring all together. So, important to take out time for our self first to feel happy, satisfying,….there are many ways to do that and of course simultaneously look after the support of her life i.e, her family. Ending this topic in short but will continue later with a hopefully positive response from others.

Its good to laugh, but instead of laughing on others , laugh with them.