#Rules, #Interest, #Thinking, #Discipline
Do we really! really! follow the rules? No, no…..I am not talking about the traffic rules, walking rules, school rules, office rules and regulations. I am talking about life rules. Yes, rules to live a happy, satisfying life that I call as “Discipline“.
From earlier days, people made the word “DISCIPLINE” so tough, difficult to follow that today also we get afraid of the word.
But a DISCIPLINE in life should be a thought that makes a meaningful, satisfying life to live.
That’s why I make my equation of Life interest on terms of rules as,
RULES + THOUGHTS = INTEREST
Let me state one story, of course with more questions to ask but should find a solution by ourself to follow our interest. A girl was happy with her family, friends, school. Then enters to the next phase i.e. college but with lots of hope, dreams to stand on her foot, to become independent, to make her parents smile, feel proud on her successful works. But suddenly again life changed as usual a new phase of life. Got married with a big dream of getting and giving that she always dreamed of. Everything was awesome only for 7days then got a shock, one dream slashed down. After 2 months again a shock, second dream screamed inside but as not shared so broke. After 4 months she understood, what we dream, the things on which have interest, our rules- all these don’t get accepted by the life. We have to sacrifice something, change our rules according to situations,then only make the equation meaningful,
RULES + THOUGHTS = INTEREST
Yes, we have to change the path of interest not the INTEREST itself. Lots of people she met and found that all wants her to change her dream, change her thoughts. But is it healthy? My point absolutely not. Even a bird can use her wings only to fly happily in sky than why not a women? Why she always have to use the wings (thoughts, suggestions, forceful advices) of others to fly(live) according to them.
Already situations change a women a lot. She itself change her rules to make a happier family then why so much of unnecessary advices needed for her, ah!….Is it that people think to keep a command on them? Because of this thinking she starts loosing her inner power of healthy thoughts.
Note : Remember that a healthy family member(a women) thoughts can make a healthy life, but a forceful ejection of others thoughts cannot become an energy booster for her and her family.
Let all women think, observe and apply their theory to discover a healthy new life. Message for all women,
MAKE RULES,. THINK POSITIVE+ TO FULFILL THEIR DREAMS(INTEREST).
Not blaming someone but blaming the negative thoughts about women.
No doubt suggestions are always welcomed but when not needed please keep them away.
Slick 